Creating a Growth Mindset

CPC8g4EW8AAdsh3Fostering a growth mindset is critical for all of our students in Worthington.  On Monday 9.21 we posted a blog on our sister site Absolute Excellence titled “Why a Growth Mindset?”  This post is intended to build upon that post.

We want all of our students to experience and believe that “hard work pays off” because we know it’s true.  As we work through the transition to new standards and work toward our Future Ready Skills we can’t expect students will find this easy.  This provides us an opportunity to cultivate a growth mindset as we intentionally design lessons and experiences to help students build their skills.

Growth mindset has been a topic of much research and work in recent years.  There are many online resources parents can reference.  Carol Dweck, a leading Stanford psychology professor, has written about the effect praise has on a student’s mindset and how we might unknowingly be reinforcing a fixed mindset with our students.

Dweck says that the impact of praise is closely linked to how students view their intellectual ability, and they tend to hold one of two beliefs.

  1.  Intelligence is a “fixed trait”.  Students with this fixed mindset become excessively concerned with how smart they are.  They seek tasks that will prove their intelligence and avoid ones that might not.  The desire to learn can take a back seat.  Students who think this way tend to:
  • Care a lot about whether people think they are smart
  • Avoid learning challenges where they might make mistakes
  • Try to hide mistakes rather than trying to correct them
  • Believe that if they have the ability, they shouldn’t have to try hard
  • Believe that needing to apply a lot of effort means they are dumb
  • Not deal well with frustration and setbacks, sometimes giving up or cheating
  1.  Intelligence can be improved! When students believe they can develop their intelligence, they focus on doing just that.  Not worrying about how smart they will appear, they take on challenges and stick to them.  They don’t necessarily believe that anyone can become an Einstein but they do understand that even Einstein had to put in years of effort.  Students with a growth mindset tend to:
  • Care about and invest in themselves in learning
  • Believe that effort is a positive thing, causing their intelligence to grow
  • Try hard in the face of frustration and failure
  • Look for new learning strategies

The way students think about learning has major implications on how and what they actually learn.  We’ve all met students we knew were promising, only to have their performance not match up with what we know they are capable.

While we can’t shape the years of experiences that have led to the development of a growth or fixed mindset, there are some things that teachers and parents can do to set students on the path of developing a growth mindset.

Here are some ideas:

  • Talk about adopting a growth mindset in class or at home–tell stories about former students who thought they would never learn the subject but who, with persistence and effort, ended up being successful in the class.
  • Talk about what is will take to effectively learn the course material–make explicit your expectations for the amount of time students should be putting in and the types of activities they should be engaging in outside of class.
  • Emphasize that “fast” learning, or getting assignments or exams done quickly, is not the same as “deep” learning.  Often students who take longer to “get it” learn the material more deeply.
  • Break difficult or complex tasks down into their component parts so that students will see for themselves their own skills building up over time.
  • Think about setting achievable micro-goals to encourage students’ consistent, incremental progress.  Small wins repeated over time can lead to a growth mindset (and increased confidence!).
  • When students succeed, praise their efforts and strategies as opposed to their intelligence.  Praise for intelligence can actually undermine motivation and performance, as children praised for intelligence increasingly view intelligence as a fixed trait; in the face of failure, these children will display less task persistence, less task enjoyment, and overall worse performance.

Where to you fall on the fixed vs. growth mindset?

The following resources may help you in building a growth mindset:

Growth Mindset Graphic

Building Your Intelligence Graphic

Cultivating a Growth Mindset at Home

Growth Mindset Resources

Growth Mindset TEDx talk:

Fostering a Growth Mindset in Struggling Students talk:

You Can Learn Anything

The Growth Mindset Playbook

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Worthington Schools – It’s Worth It

On August 18th we released our new video “Worthington – It’s Worth It”  I hope you have taken the time to watch the video and that you enjoy seeing some familiar faces.  This is our attempt to share “the story of Worthington Schools.”  Several teachers, community members, and students, are featured in the video.  Here’s what they actually said:  (It’s fun to read, because I think they hit the nail on the head and point out some of what we’re really proud of in Worthington Schools.)

“Worthington Schools has a strong tradition of excellence and our community has high expectations for our schools.  In Worthington we strive to provide a well-rounded education for all of our children.  This means we have a rigorous curriculum, we have caring teachers who strive to make a positive difference and connect with our students and we offer many activities and clubs.  We call this a “Both / And” approach.  We’re not striving just to make a difference on test scores, we want our students engaged in curriculum, we want them engaged in activities and clubs and sports that provide them a well-rounded opportunity.  Our students in Worthington walk out college and career ready.  They’re ready for the workplace, they’re ready for college, but more importantly, they’re life ready.  They’re full of grit and perseverance.  In Worthington we do this with a stable and lean budget.  Every dollar we spend is analyzed carefully to make sure it’s best spent for student success.  We invite you to take a look at our Worthington Schools website, connect with us on social media and better yet come see first hand what a Worthington education looks like in our schools.” – Dr. Trent Bowers, Superintendent

“I definitely think the teachers here are all very genuine and they all love their job so that actually like makes the students like want to come to school.”  – Caroline (middle school student)

“First of all, we chose Worthington for a lot of different things.  One of which was obviously the schools.”  – Phil Giessler (Worthington Grandparent, Realtor)

“Being a product of the district, having taught for the district, and being a parent of children within the district, it has such a community feel to it.” – Jen Shaver (Parent)

“Everybody that’s there is just so involved.  There’s always events that I’m volunteering for or that everybody’s involved in. We’re always trying to get the whole community involved.” –  Stephanie Woodrow (Parent)

“Well I have to say we have a really amazing parent community.  Families are so involved, it feels really good to live here and work here, I know people on a professional and a personal basis.  It’s really cool to see kids in the neighborhood.”  – Kate Kennedy (Teacher)

“Ms ______ is my favorite teacher.  She’s nice and she helps us a lot.  She’s loving!”  – Camden (Elementary Student)

“As we have a child at high school, middle school and elementary school we’ve seen the diversity of programs offered and the quality of programs.  The teachers are phenomenal!”  – Jennifer Button (Parent)

“I graduated from Worthington Kilbourne and went on to Ohio State to play soccer and study finance there.  Just going to Worthington City Schools my whole life has really prepared me for college and post graduation and getting a job and starting my career.”  – Sage Gardner (Graduate)

“My boy is going to go to Harvard.  Worthington prepared him for that.” – Jason Liu (Parent, Business Owner)

“One of the things that the Worthington Schools does give us is a sense of diversity.  And by allowing our kids to meet other kids whether it is ethnic diversity or religious diversity that’s something that really enables them to learn what it’s like to live in the real world.” – Rabbi Rick (Parent, Religious Leader)

“My younger daughter Erin attended Kilbourne just for her freshman year and wanted to explore the Linworth Alternative Program.  She’s a junior now and not only does she love the program, she is thriving there.  To have that option and that choice just meant the world to us.  That she could attend school and actually like school.”  – Kathy Riebel (Parent)

“Both of the high schools have several different programs to help get your child prepared for college.  Especially the STEM program and the International Baccalaureate Program, so it’s worth the effort to come to Worthington.  Most definitely.”  – Rebecca Billingslea (Parent)

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My 6 Expectations for ALL Staff

At our Worthington Schools convocation last week (8.18.2015) I was able to share my 6 expectations for all staff members in Worthington Schools.  They’re very simple, but I believe if we can get to the place where all 1,250 Worthington staff members are following these expectations there will be great positive power for our school district.  They’ll provide you a glimpse of where my heart is.

Be Kind to Kids  We work in the kid business.  As public school educators our job is first to love our kids.  We must always treat them with respect and do everything possible to help them grow.  It’s critical that we remember that they’re just kids.  Whether they are 7 years old, 12 years old, or 17 years old, they’re kids.  And as kids, they’ll act like kids.  Sometimes because we spend so much time with them we lose perspective and we see them as “10 feet tall and invincible.”  It happens to all educators from time to time.  In Worthington we will recognize this and take a step back.  As adults we will ask ourselves, “How can I make certain that all students are held to high expectations for learning and behavior but are always treated with kindness and respect?”

Be Present  Being physically present is important, but just as important is being mentally present.  Each moment throughout the day is an opportunity to engage with our students.  Did we say “hi” to them by name when they got on and off the school bus?  Did we talk in meaningful ways with students in the lunchroom, in the hallway, or on the playground?  It’s not enough to be physically present we must totally invest in our kids to make the positive difference we seek.

Serve the Customer  In 2015 students and families have many options for public education.  They can learn online, they can go to a local charter school, or to a local private school.  Students can take courses at our local universities and some of these courses are even offered on our campus.  Worthington Schools has a whole lot to offer, but I think where we can, and will, differentiate ourselves from the market is with a personal approach.  Before making a decision we must always ask,  “How will this decision make things better for our students?”  or “How will this make things easier for the parents of our students?”  Public schooling is a service profession and we must get better at providing positive and proactive customer service.

Communicate, Communicate, Communicate  There are many great things going on in Worthington Schools, but if we fail to tell our story someone else will tell their version of our story.  It’s critical that we take the time to share the positive stories that happen each day in our schools.  In addition, communication has never been harder.  Our families and our students need clear and simple communication that makes going to school and managing a complicated world easier.  Finally, as a staff member in Worthington, what you say about your students, your school, or our school district has great weight in our community.  Communication is everyone’s job.

Believe in Growth  Every child in Worthington Schools should know they have a trusted adult, or many trusted adults in our schools, who believe in their ability to learn and who are vested in their success.  In Worthington we will set high expectations for student success and will partner with our students to help them achieve those high expectations through hard work and positive relationships.

Be Kind to Kids  We are in the kid business.  Take care of our kids.  As a parent I’m trusting the school district with the most important people in my life.  I’m sending the best I have.  Love them.  Believe in them.  Hold them to high expectations and help them reach those high expectations.  Do it all with kindness and love.  

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My Convocation Speech “It’s Worth It!”

IMG_7907This morning I have the opportunity to speak to all 1,250 employees of Worthington Schools.  Who would have ever thought that a kid like me would have the privilege and honor to speak to the educators in Worthington? Those were long odds.  It’s my first address as Superintendent of Schools and while I hope I’ll have this opportunity every year for the next 20 years, I approached this year as if I may only get one opportunity and decided to share what matters most to me in public education:  That every child knows they have a trusted adult, or many trusted adults in our schools, who believe in their ability to learn and who are vested in their success.  That we will set high expectations for student success and will partner with our students to help them achieve those high expectations through hard work and positive relationships.  Here’s what I plan to share this morning:  (Caution: this is long.  I plan to speak for 18 minutes.  I hope it’s worth your time.)

“It was the fall of 1982.  I remember the day was one of those perfect, yet rare fall days.  I was standing on the playground of Worthington Hills Elementary near where they had painted white lines for a time-out box.  I wasn’t in the time-out box, but I was near the time-out box.  Josh Ness, one of my fourth grade classmates from Worthington Hills came up to me on the playground.  He told me that he was smart and I wasn’t.  He knew he was smart because he was in EPP and I wasn’t.  Now, I had no question that Josh was right, but I also had no idea what he was talking about.  What in the heck was EPP?  Was that even a word in English?  (For those of you who don’t know, EPP is the acronym we have used in Worthington for many years for our elementary gifted and talented program.)  So, I had no idea what Josh was even talking about, but I also assessed that he was correct.  Josh was very smart and I was not.

See by the fourth grade, my first year in Worthington Schools, I had developed a fixed mindset about my abilities in school.  I believed that there were many smart kids in my classes, kids like Josh Ness and then there were a few kids like me who weren’t very smart.  Most people seemed to accept this thought process and they may say “school is just not Trent’s thing.”  It never occurred to me that it was possible that through hard work and extra practice I could improve my cognitive ability, so…I didn’t. Instead I invested in the things that were my thing.  I was a gym class champion.  I could catch a football and throw a lacrosse ball.  Classroom work, well that was for the smart kids.

With that mindset I muddled through fifth, sixth, seventh and eighth grade before I became a freshman at Worthington High School.  At that time all freshmen attended the Kilbourne Building (now Kilbourne Middle School) and only 10th – 12th graders attended this building.  In 9th grade I was signed up for more challenging course work than I had been earlier in my academic career.  Well, that was going to be an issue.  I wasn’t smart.  If I couldn’t do the coursework, why even invest the effort.  Thus, I invested my efforts elsewhere.  I learned how to sneak out at lunch to walk to the Home Market, buy a sandwich and eat on the roof of the store.  Once I led my classmates in a shared experience.  Unfortunately not a positive shared experience.  When our Spanish teacher Mr. Benacazar turned his back we all threw our super balls at the wall.  They bounced for a long time and Mr. Benacazar turned many shades of red.  And, with that effort, or lack of effort, I finished my freshman year with a one point something grade point average and still no belief that I could actually learn.

In coming to main campus in 10th grade my mom thought it would be a good idea for me to take Etymology class.  Etymology was an English elective that she was certain would help me do better on the SAT and ACT.  (I took each test three times by the way.)  Much like EPP, I had no idea what Etymology was but when I arrived for my first class there was an empty seat next to Nicole Van Steyn.  All of the sudden Etymology was my favorite class.  (Now, just to be clear, I was not confident enough to actually talk to Nicole Van Steyn, and had she spoken to me I may have passed out and needed medical attention.  But, as long as that seating arrangement held I would be on time and ready to learn in Etymology.)IMG_7910

And, that’s when my life began to change.  Nicole Van Steyn had nothing to do with that, sadly, but instead I met my Etymology teacher, Jan Fish.  Mrs. Fish was new to Worthington High School and she treated me differently than any other teacher I can remember.  She expected me to learn in her class.  She offered to help me learn, she reviewed with me what I needed to learn, but she expected that I could and would learn.  Not only that, but she took an interest in me as a person.  She would meet me and others at Dalts and talk Etymology and life.  She would attend my athletic contests and would discuss them with me in class.  (Sometimes even in front of Nicole Van Steyn.)  I knew she cared.  In Etymology I succeeded.  I think I earned a B-.  For me that was a huge success.  And, it led to more.  As the semester ended Mrs. Fish pulled me aside and asked me to sign up for her advanced composition course.  Really, me?  Advanced Composition?  But she believed in me, so I found myself the next year in the basement of this school sitting at an Apple 2E learning that writing is rewriting.  More importantly I began to believe that I could really write.  And that belief, that was fostered by Mrs. Fish, carried over into many of my other classes.  I still graduated from Worthington High School in the bottom half of my class with a 2.6 grade point average, but because of Mrs. Fish’s high expectations and relationship building I was beginning to believe I could do class work.

From Worthington High School I went off to college at Taylor University.  (Famous alumni of Taylor include Worthington Kilbourne’s Jon Sprunger.)  My goal at Taylor was to not flunk out.  Seriously, that was my goal.  Just don’t flunk out.  I was not confident I could handle college level work and I just didn’t want to flunk out.

At Taylor I played football and likely that’s how I got into school.  My freshman year I began the season third string on the depth chart and as fate would have it both of the guys in front of me tore their ACL’s and thus midway through our first game I found myself as the starter.  I started all year long and my position coach was Dr. Joe Romine.  Dr. Romine was also the college athletic director and he was a gruff, no nonsense guy.  For the first four months I knew him I did everything possible to avoid him.  He would bark at me BOWERS, and he was tough.  In our final game my freshman season we were playing our archrival Anderson University.  I dropped an easy touchdown catch on third down (I turned to run before looking the ball into my hands) and coming off the field Coach Romine met me with a face so red I can’t believe he didn’t have a stroke.  That was 24 years ago and I can picture that face like it was yesterday.  IMG_7918

As our season ended each player had to meet with the head coach and their position coach for a season evaluation.  As a freshman boy I was feeling pretty good about myself.  I had started all 10 games that season and I hadn’t yet flunked out.  I went into the evaluation expecting to hear really good things.  Coach Romine didn’t even show-up and the head coach looked at Coach Romine’s written comments and read them to me:  “Bowers has very little athletic ability, but takes coaching well.”  The head coach looked up at me and I kid you not, all he said was, “keep it up.”  That was it, end of my big end of season evaluation.  I guess I wasn’t as important as I thought I was.

The first semester ended in December and in those days there were no computer based grades (there of course was no internet or email either…) so first semester grades would be mailed to my home over break.  When my grades came my parents opened the perforated paper with care.  They looked at the grades and then they danced around the family room like they had won the lottery.  I had a 2.8 grade point average my first semester in college.  It was the highest I had ever had.  I was not going to flunk out.  My parents were more surprised than even I was.  Boom, a 2.8!  (On a side note it’s all perspective.  My wife had a 3.4 GPA her first semester and cried because she had never received below an “A” in her life.)

At Taylor January is it’s own term.  So as the January term began I was heading to the Taylor weight room to get a workout in.  I was wearing my all purple workout suit and my black Nike high tops when I spotted Dr. Romine working the ticket booth at the basketball game.  Immediately I tried to avoid him.  I thought, don’t make eye contact, walk fast, don’t look up.  That’s when I heard his booming voice “BOWERS.”  Stink, he saw me.  I went over to Dr. Romine, “Yes, Coach.”  He said, “what were your grades first semester?”  I smiled, stood up straight and very proudly said, “Coach I had a 2.8 GPA.”  He just looked at me… then he grabbed the back of a basketball game program and asked, “what are you taking this semester?”  I told him about my class schedule, he did some math on the program and then said some simple words that changed my life forever.  He said “Get an A this term and your GPA will be a 3.0.  Don’t ever let it get below a 3.0.”  A 3.0 GPA, really? Me?

While earning a 3.0 GPA would be nothing to many college students, I had never even considered this possible.  There were smart kids like Josh Ness and there were kids like me.  My mindset was totally fixed.  And while Mrs. Fish began to change how I thought about learning and about my abilities it really never occurred to me until Dr. Romine said those simple words to me that I could do better.  Not only that, Dr. Romine expected that I would do better and like Mrs. Fish he invested in my life on a personal level and over the next four years he showed me he cared about me, he cared about my family, and he cared about my future.  The truth is I didn’t go on to earn my doctorate in education because I someday wanted to be the Superintendent of Worthington Schools, (although that is a pretty cool thing…) I earned my doctorate in Education because my senior year in college I promised myself I would because I wanted to be just like Dr. Romine.

Stanford University Professor Carol Dweck wrote the book “Mindset, the New Psychology of Success.”  In her book Dr. Dweck explains that there are fixed mindsets and that there are growth mindsets.  Those with fixed mindsets see intelligence as static.  From an early age I operated with a fixed mindset about myself.  Sadly most well intentioned adults cultivated this fixed mindset, and likely, they even bought into it.  At Worthington High School whether it was a conscious decision or not Mrs. Fish believed differently.  Mrs. Fish operated from a Growth Mindset.  A Growth Mindset believes that intelligence can be developed.  And over time I began to believe that I could learn, grow and achieve.  It took Dr. Romine’s tough love approach and seeing success for a number of years before I began to think differently about my own abilities.  Over time I began to believe that with the right amount of effort and support I could learn.

I share my story with you today because it’s the story I know best, but also because I believe many of you can relate to my story.  Likewise I believe we have literally thousands of students in Worthington Schools who don’t believe they can learn at the level that is necessary.

Jan Fish and Joe Romine changed how I thought about myself and in so doing they literally changed the trajectory of my life.  They’re very different people with different styles but they both had several important things in common.  First, they had high expectations for me.  They didn’t lower their expectations, instead they were very clear about what was expected but also clear that they would help me get to what was expected.  I would have to work hard, but they would support me and they would not rest until I was successful.  Secondly, they invested in me as a person.  They took the time to learn about me and about my family.  They gave of themselves and spent time talking with me.  In Mrs. Fish’s case at Dalts, or in Dr. Romine’s case in the athletic office at Taylor.  I knew they cared about me academically, but more importantly I knew they cared about me as a person.

It’s a simple combination really, one that can be repeated over and over again.  Set high expectations for success, commit to helping every child get there, and take the time to make sure students know you believe in them and you care about them.  I believe if all 1,250 of us commit to doing just that then there will be great power.

In 2015 there are many different ways students can choose to learn.  They have options.  They can learn online, they can go to a local charter school, or to a local private school.  Students can take courses at our local universities and some of these courses are even offered on our campus.  Worthington Schools has a whole lot to offer, but I think where we can, and will, differentiate ourselves from the market is with a personal approach.  We will be 1,250 adults who spend time building positive relationships with our students and our families.  Every child who attends Worthington Schools should know that they have a trusted adult, or many trusted adults, who believe in their ability to learn and who are vested in their success.  Families will continue to choose Worthington as their educational provider because they will know that every adult who comes in contact with their child knows them personally and really cares about them.

It does not matter if you are a bus driver, a teacher, the custodian, a food service professional, or a member of the office staff.  Our number one job is to engage with our students and to help them believe in themselves.  Some students come to us with this belief firmly established.  We need to foster that belief, nurture it and expand upon it.  Some students are like I was.  Those students need to know that someone believes they can and will be successful.  Sometimes it takes a trusted adult believing in you before you can believe in yourself.  Sometimes it may take many trusted adults before a child can begin to believe that growth is possible.  Whatever it takes, that’s Worthington Schools!  Every one of us plays a major role in this goal.  It won’t be easy.  Kids don’t always play nice in the sandbox.  Sometimes they throw super balls at the wall.  Sometimes they sneak off campus and eat lunch on the roof of the Home Market.  Love them anyway!  Believe in them anyway!  Hold them to high standards, but help them achieve those high standards!

When it’s all said and done our goal is to make a positive difference in the lives of our kids and their families.  It won’t always be easy, actually it will almost never be easy, but it will be worth it.  It’s the reason we’re here!

Learning to have a Growth Mindset for yourself and for all of our students is important.  I still have to make that choice for myself everyday.  We have 9,700 or so students in Worthington Schools.  My dream for this year and for every year is that each of those students knows that the adults in their school believe they can be successful and will do everything possible to help them be successful.  That’s our number one goal for this school year and together we will make it happen.  It will be Worth It!”

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243 Days

images 2It’s been 243 days since the Worthington Board of Education announced that I would be the next Superintendent of Worthington Schools (btw that’s a whole year on Venus!)  Today is the day! Please don’t contact me today.  I’ll be very busy today changing my email signature, my twitter description, etc… to say “Superintendent.”  (21st Century tasks…. and J/K I’m available and working.  Please contact me…)

Many people have asked about the transition phase.  It’s unlikely that many CEO transitions last as long as this one did, although certainly there are some examples that are longer.  With the luxury of being able to look back with clarity, the 243 days was really, really beneficial for me personally and hopefully for all of Worthington Schools.

First off, I appreciate Dr. Thomas Tucker in this transition.  He acted with class and provided me the space necessary to move forward.  Inevitably from time to time I stepped on his toes and overstepped my bounds. He usually handled it well.  Secondly, this time allowed me to spend significant time building relationships across the school district.  I was able to meet with many constituent groups as well as hold community meetings about our school district.  This engagement provides both myself and our Board of Education clear direction moving forward and a better understanding regarding the priorities of our community.  Third, I had an opportunity to handle the “snow day call.”  Sometimes our community would say I did it right.  Sometimes our community might say I failed miserably.  Likely they’ll feel the same way next year as they did this year but I head into inclement weather with some experience.  Finally, the 243 day transition allowed me to get to know the other Central Ohio Superintendents and create a support system that will benefit Worthington as we partner with others to create shared solutions that make Central Ohio the education leader of Ohio.

Today I move one office over at the Worthington Education Center.  I’ll change my office phone number.  I’ll change my email, twitter description and business cards.  But with 243 days behind me not much else will change.  I’ve been blessed to have had the time to learn the job with a safety net.  We’re 49 days from the start of the 2015-2016 school year for students in Worthington.  Over the next 49 days our team will discuss “what matters most” in Worthington.  We’ll work with all staff so that every Worthington student has a trusted adult who they know believes in them.  We’ll work tirelessly to make Worthington a great public school district.

It’s been a fun 243 days.  Onward!

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Coach Cave

11180600_10153322078023887_8579943781619228129_nSunday at the 136th commencement of Thomas Worthington High School, Social Studies teacher Tim Cave was selected by the Hall of Fame committee as one of new members of the Thomas Worthington Hall of Fame.  As Tim arrived on stage he shook the hand of Principal Jim Gaskill and Superintendent Thomas Tucker.  He then did something none of the other Hall of Fame recipients did (and I am in no way implying they should have…) he came over and made a point of shaking my hand.  Sometimes it’s the little things in life that mean a lot.  At that moment I wanted to put Tim Cave in a giant man hug.  But, if you know Tim well, you know had I done so he may have publicly executed me.  Thus, I settled for a firm hand-shake and a look in the eye.

Over the past seven years as an administrator in Worthington’s central administration office I have known Tim as an outstanding teacher of AP European History at Thomas Worthington High School.  I’ve known him as a man who believes teachers should be allowed to carry guns to confront violence and I’ve known him as the guy who shoots off fireworks from his front yard when the Thomas Worthington Football team scores touchdowns.  (Don’t tell the Worthington Police and yes, we need to score more touchdowns!)

While my connection with Tim in an official capacity has been very positive, my connection with Tim actually goes back 28 years to when I met Tim Cave as a scared 14 year old freshman coming out to play Worthington Lacrosse.  Tim was the assistant coach and was my position coach.  He was in ridiculous physical condition and he would send us on long runs from the high school around Antrim Lake and back up the hill to the field house.  Not only would he make us run but to ensure we actually ran the whole way he would run with us and every so often stop and do push-ups so slow guys like me could catch-up.

For four years I learned a lot from Tim Cave.  Two things stand out and they are two things that I’ll never forget. First, Tim taught me “you’ve got to shoot to get hot, you’ve got to shoot to stay hot!”  He’d say it over and over.  The phrase has been important in my life.  When I was nervous to ask the woman who is now my wife out on a date that phrase was in my head.  You’ve got to take a shot.  When I applied to become the Superintendent of Worthington Schools four years ago and everyone thought I was crazy, Tim’s voice was in my head.  At many points throughout life when I’ve had doubt I’ve heard Tim’s voice.  You’ve got to take a shot!

Second, Tim, along with our head coach CG (no first or last name needed, just CG), taught me one simple phrase.  “Finish.”  I’ll never forget running up the hill from the flats to the TWHS field house, dog tired, wanting to quit with every fiber of my being.  Here comes Tim Cave and he’s running back down the hill after already finishing to run next to me, all the way saying “Finish.  Don’t you dare quit.  Don’t walk.  Finish.”  Later in life when I went through a marathon running phase, over those last six miles of the marathon I would hear Tim’s voice or picture CG sitting on the back of his black Ford Bronco, yelling FINISH!  When I was struggling to complete my doctoral dissertation and wondering if it would be worth it, Tim’s voice came back to me.  There was no way I could quit.  What if Coach Cave found out?

Tim is Worthington to the core.  He actually attended preschool at St. John’s on the Village Green.  He was a long-time Colonial Hills resident and now he and I both live in Kilbourne Village.  Tim didn’t get inducted into the Thomas Worthington Hall of Fame for his work with me.  He was inducted because he’s a great teacher and a credit to his profession.  But for me personally he’s in my hall of fame.  He made a difference in my life and I hope to teach my own children, and someday my grandchildren, what Tim taught me.

Congratulations Coach Cave!  Well deserved!  #Go Cards!

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The Amazing Drew George and my quest to beat Greg Garris

10250048_799776196773003_5819524181675856559_nMost mornings I attempt to go for a run before work.  I need the exercise and it’s a good way to clear my head.  Like many mornings I passed Wilson Hill teacher, Todd Smith (more accurately Todd passed me as he’s a machine and I’m an old, balding, semi-fat man attempting to run….but I digress…).  As I ran along my normal route I attempted to run a little faster than I normally would.  (Faster is a relative word.)  This attempt was mostly due to the fact that in a few short days I need to beat Thomas Worthington Mathematics teacher, Greg Garris, in the Fusion for the Fight 5K.

Why do I need to beat Greg Garris, a man 15 years younger than I am you may ask?  Here’s the back-story. Last June I ran the #DrewStrong/GussStrong 4.23 mile race from Worthington Kilbourne High School to Thomas Worthington High School.  With only a few hundred yards left in the race I was able to catch-up to Greg.  Unfortunately, as I began taunting him and challenging him to a sprint to the finish he remembered than he had young legs and I had old legs and he easily out sprinted me.  This Fusion 5K is my unlikely opportunity for redemption.

But, that’s all lead up to the real story.  The real story is that I ran the #DrewStrong/GussStrong race to support Worthington Kilbourne student, Drew George, who was diagnosed with leukemia on Nov. 7, 2013.  Later last school year George underwent a bone marrow transplant April 9, 2014, with his sister, Tori, being the 10 out of 10 perfect donor.11072723_792756390808317_790912669257019934_n

Fast forward one year and Drew George is back and better than ever.  He’s playing baseball for Worthington Kilbourne and just last week a healthy Drew George pitched a complete game shut-out for the Wolves.  Coach Dan Swallie tweeted out “Wolves win 2-0!  Drew George with the complete game shut-out.  Is there anything he can’t do?”  I literally shed tears when I saw Dan’s tweet.  Not only is Drew back playing the game he loves but he’s also been on the Worthington Kilbourne honor roll for his academic success.

I don’t know Drew personally but as a grown man approaching middle age I can easily say I look up to this young man.  He’s persevered through circumstances that most of us would rather not even imagine.  It’s an amazing story.  Today I wear my Wolves baseball hat in honor of Drew George.  (I look ridiculous in these flat bill hats that are in style today.  I’m hoping 1989 circles back around soon.)  Next week I’ll run attempting to beat Greg Garris but more importantly running for a good cause:  beating cancer!FullSizeRender (9)

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